The following points are things to consider when dating.  Some of these tips may appear obvious but we think that if you do try and follow them, it can only assist you in ensuring you have safe and happy dating experiences.

·          Always trust your instincts, don’t do anything you feel uncomfortable with.

·          Don't take everything and everyone at face value.

·          Do ask plenty of questions when chatting. 

·          Ensure you feel comfortable at all times whoever you are chatting with.

·          If someone is being abusive to you, leave them straight away.

·          Don't provide your home or work address to anyone you have not met or have just met.  Get to know a little more about them first.

·          Before agreeing to going on a date, check that you know as much as possible about the person you’re meeting.

·          Ensure you meet in a public place which is well known, busy and convenient to you.  

·          Always tell a friend or family member where you are going to be and who you are meeting.  Make arrangements to phone or text them during the date to confirm you are ok.

·          Ensure you make your own travel arrangements for the date. Under no circumstances should you accept a lift home on the first date or reveal your home address. 

·          If meeting someone for the first time, try lunch dates.  The advantage is you have a time limit and it’s easier to make your excuses and leave should you feel the need!

·          Don't allow yourself to be talked into anything, whatsoever! You are the one in charge.